Why My Man Won’t Cheat on Me

They say fidelity among men is rare because men are naturally unfaithful. Most girls I know hate it. Of course, all of us would want their men loyal, honest, and trustworthy. I am truly glad and blessed while I am certain that my man won't cheat on me. As an excerpt from the novel, The Notebook, authored by Nicholas Spark, "I know there could never have been another. I knew it then and I know it now."

It always takes two to tango. Both the man and the woman have to do their share to cherish and uphold the relationship. And as we work our way to our journey of a lifetime, we make ways to keep the 'promise' forever. And I'd love to share it with you.

Respect. I see to it that he feels that he exists and his words matter to me. I appreciate his emotions and value his decisions. Experts say that women must learn how to make him feel that he is your 'hero'. I do these as he also gives merit to my wishes and feelings. Indeed, mutual respect is important in making healthy relationships.

Involvement. We engage in each other's lives. We get connected with each other's families, friends, and loved ones. Doing things together, enjoying the things we haven't done yet, and spending quality time together are some of our little adventures - things that perk up the spark and keep the love burning.

Communication. We make sure that communication lines are open. If we think it is not yet time to discuss things over, we find for the perfect moment. This helps us decide better and understand each other. Learning your partner's language of love is also a good way to effectively communicate with him or her. This certainly lessens the chances of being misunderstood and gets rid of further conflicts.

Acceptance. We intend to recognize each other's failures, weaknesses, and shortcomings while we treasure our strengths, skills and triumphs. Bridging gaps, we then say, "You complete me." Through this, we are able to bring out the best in ourselves as we take risks and grab opportunities.

Girls, here's another secret. Remain amazingly beautiful inside and out. Make him fall in love with you each day. Emphasize your special features and empower your unique characteristics. Let the element of surprise reigns in your relationship. Always unleash the beauty in you.

And since 'men are from mars and women are from venus', doing these things isn't really easy. It takes a dose of guts and patience. But, if there is true love, I know, this can be possible.

And when you do all those ways to keep him and the relationship, do you think he still has reasons to be unfaithful? I don't think so for I know he is a good man. His faith and values are enough to keep him away from temptations or any activities that will hurt someone he truly loves.

Wait, just one important point to ponder on: whether our men cheat or not, it all basically depends on us. It is how we treat them, appreciate their existence, and most of all, cherish our commitment.

I hope our relationships with our men blossom each day and lead into something really rare and special.

To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved. - George MacDonald